Summer is the best time of the year. But Summer Break? The original intent of summer break was for children to have a reprieve from school – only to go work on the farm.
Today, parents of school age children frantically plan lengthy vacations during the summer months. In my firm alone, every parent has a week or two off this summer.|1| Thus, the term Summer Break now only applies to the nostalgic thoughts and memories of our frolicking school-days.
I recall in 2nd grade my Dream Career was either to be The President, a Professional Baseball Player, or a Schwan’s Delivery Truck Driver.|2|
Mom my chuckled and proclaimed, “You could probably already become a Schwan’s Truck Driver.”
Then, “What is school for?” I pondered. With little effort on my part, I could already achieve my goals.
This is probably a poor representation of Dream Careers, yet parents often tell their children they can achieve anything – through hard work! But 2nd Graders are all about the glamorous careers. Still, many parents have a 2nd grade mindset and covet a glamorous legacy for their offspring – by desperately attempting to recreate their own long lost dreams – instead of actually nurturing what the child yearns to pursue.
I have a friend|3| who is ~5’-5” and his Baby Mama is ~5’-2.” Yet, he thinks if he pushes hard enough his toddler will become a celebrated professional athlete; however, those are infinitesimally short odds to overcome.
Fortunately, most glamour dreams are easily overcome before puberty. I set aside my Yankees cap and had decided upon being an architect sometime in High School. I’m not going to claim that I was destined to be an architect due to my affinity for legos at age 6. For, I should’ve also been destined to become an actuary due to my memorization of Don Mattingly’s baseball statistics.|4| Yet, somehow eager people pushed me towards engineering, because I excelled at the newly-termed “STEM” fields. But I also coveted art and drawing, and I presumed that architecture was a more creative profession than the being a locomotive driver. Plus, I was good at Math!
However,after years of clipping “architectural” home plans from the Great Falls Tribune’s Sunday paper (because, I clearly would need to know this if I were to become an architect) my High School guidance counselor told me to reconsider my architectural ambitions. Not because it is a low-paying career, or that my Advanced Placement Calculus class would serve no purpose in the field of architecture,|5| but because her daughter was currently in architecture school – and it was hard. Perhaps she was a psychological savant – and knew that only impassioned individuals who were doubted could succeed in architecture.
My High School had two guidance counselors. The High School Guidance Counselor serving last names N through Z was impassioned, always gave me helpful advice, and most importantly could identify me from my fraternal twin brother.
However, I was unluckily born with the last name beholden to the non-savant High School Guidance Counselor serving last names A through M.
If my authorized High School Guidance Counselor serving last names A through M was in fact a savant she wouldn’t have mistakenly given me my twin brother’s SAT scores. And furthermore, during our “mock job interview” she wouldn’t have questioned my usage of the word “firm.”
High School Guidance Counselor serving last names A through M: “Hi Jeffery, I’ve reviewed your hypothetical Job Cover Letter, and there are a few areas that are confusing to me.”
Me: “Ummm I’m Brady…”
High School Guidance Counselor serving last names A through M: “Oh. Brady. Right. You need to be more specific when applying to this hypothetical company. Is this a law firm? Or an architectural firm? You keep generically calling them the “firm”
Me: Umm, I told you I was interested in architecture. I was assuming “the firm” was not a John Grisham novel, but rather a hypothetical architecture firm. Furthermore, if my hypothetical “firm” doesn’t know if they provide architectural services, or law services, then they probably have an identity crisis beyond the scope of this fake job interview session.”
High School Guidance Counselor serving last names A through M: “Perhaps, but I think you should still be more specific and say, “I am passionate about your ARCHITECTURE firm’s work. Otherwise it’s confusing. And this forces me to stress that maybe another career option would be more suitable. My daughter is in Architecture School and she works extremely long hours.”
Who was this miscreant to tell ME that I shouldn’t be an architect? I mean, I graduated in the top 5% of my class, was amazing at Math, loved art, and most importantly – had been clipping architectural floor plans from the weekly Tribune for months.
Stubbornly, I followed in the footsteps of her hard-working daughter, and I too went to Montana State University, to work long hours studying architecture. I would consistently stay in the dungeness, windowless, Cheever Hall – with a leeky roof – until the wee hours of the morning; only to go home to grab a Costco corn dog and to change my crispy socks before my 8am class. Other undedicated, apathetic, students would eat regular meals, maintain a typical sleep schedule, PLUS have time for extracurricular activities – only the truly fervent architecture students would work long hours until their eyes permanently began to droop.
Ultimately, I too became an impassioned Architecture School graduate, and now I often wonder if, perhaps, High School Guidance Counselor serving last names A through M was actually a true guidance-counseling savant.
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1 And if they don’t have summer vacations planned, then why have they inexplicably failed to return my wedding RSVP by July 1st?
2 If you don’t know what Schwan’s is, then you never grew up in the country, and never had a personal ice-cream delivery service. Ooh. And Flintsone’s Push-Pops!
3 I really hope he doesn’t read this blog.
4 Shouldn’t an icon (whom I have 120 individual baseball cards of in my possession), and a .307 career hitter receive even 30% of the Hall of Fame votes?
5 I have still never calculated the rotational inertia of a Select Structural #1 Grade Douglas-Fir beam.
- This post is part of the #ArchiTalks series in which the multi-faceted architect Bob Borson, of Life of an Architect, selects a theme and a group of us other (architectural) bloggers all post on the same day, on the same topic. It’s similar to those 3rd grade art projects – where every classmate gets the same piece of (photocopied) paper with identical squiggly marks as a starting point – and then all the students use their creativity to produce an original masterpiece. This month’s theme is Summer Break. To read how others interpreted the theme please click the links below… Let’s hope that my squiggly letter B is transformed into more than my name (B)rady.
Bob Borson – Life of An Architect (@bobborson)
Architectural Bucket List
Matthew Stanfield – FiELD9: architecture (@FiELD9arch)
Marica McKeel – Studio MM (@ArchitectMM)
Summer Break = Extreme Architecture
Jeff Echols – Architect Of The Internet (@Jeff_Echols)
Summer Break and Aunt Loretta
Lee Calisti, AIA – Think Architect (@LeeCalisti)
Mark R. LePage – Entrepreneur Architect (@EntreArchitect)
2 Simple Systems That Will Transform Your Studio
Lora Teagarden – L² Design, LLC (@L2DesignLLC)
Vacationing with an Architect
Cormac Phalen – Cormac Phalen (@archy_type)
MILES AND MILES OF ROAD
Andrew Hawkins, AIA – Hawkins Architecture, Inc. (@hawkinsarch)
Jes Stafford – Modus Operandi Design (@modarchitect)
Rosa Sheng – Equity by Design / The Missing 32% Project (@miss32percent)
#Architalks 10 – Give me a Break!
Michele Grace Hottel – Michele Grace Hottel, Architect (@mghottel)
#Architalks 10 – “”summer break””
Meghana Joshi – IRA Consultants, LLC (@MeghanaIRA)
Architalks: There, but not there
Amy Kalar – ArchiMom (@AmyKalar)
Michael Riscica – Young Architect (@YoungArchitxPDX)
The Architecture Students Summer Break
Stephen Ramos – BUILDINGS ARE COOL (@sramos_BAC)
Architect: Gift or Curse?
Brian Paletz – The Emerging Architect (@bpaletz)
Tara Imani – Tara Imani Designs, LLC (@Parthenon1)
A Brilliant Summer Break
Eric Wittman – intern[life] (@rico_w)
summer break [or] summer school
Sharon George – Architecture By George (@sharonraigeorge)
Summer Break #ArchiTalks
Brinn Miracle – Architangent (@simplybrinn)